Sarah-Mai Miller and Heath Miller lived in 10 completely different homes and flats in 17 years. The couple owned three of these homes — an 1800s saltbox in Greenport on Lengthy Island and a contemporary cozy cabin and a glass cabin, each in a city known as Milan in upstate New York.

The couple’s ventures in actual property had been a pure extension of their jobs as inventive administrators. Collectively, they based Chalk 242, a inventive advert company they’d named after the tackle of their first house in New York Metropolis, a prewar constructing on the Higher West Facet. For the Millers, the strains blurred between work, play and residential.

The 2 homes in Milan had been nicknamed Maitopia and Mailan, a nod to Ms. Miller’s title. However they bore her husband’s out-of-the-box touches, like a lap pool inside two steps of the backdoor of Maitopia, and, most curious to Ms. Miller, a bath in the course of the tiny dwelling. “I noticed the designs for the bathtub and was like, ‘Actually?’” she recalled.

In February 2023, Mr. Miller, 47, died in a head-on collision on a rural, darkish street on the North Fork just a few miles from their Greenport dwelling. Mr. Miller was driving. His pal who was within the passenger’s seat, and the 2 occupants of the opposite automobile died.

Mr. Miller’s dying left his spouse stricken with grief, reliving each reminiscence of what they’d constructed collectively. The night time Heath died, Sarah-Mai known as her mother and father, who drove by way of the night time to be with their daughter. Different family and friends members provided their help and presence within the coming days and weeks. Ms. Miller ultimately went again “dwelling” to her native Ohio after the casual celebration of Heath’s life in his hometown, York, Pa., the place a few of his household nonetheless lives. She returned to the saltbox dwelling in Greenport weeks later to see if she could possibly be there alone. She had slightly firm, Rufus, their canine. “It was so empty,” she mentioned. “Day by day was a reminder of how quiet it was.”

She lasted 4 days. It was time to let go, she thought. She listed the house. After which she listed Mailan, the ‘cozy-modern glass home’ upstate. After which she and her husband’s enterprise accomplice, Max King, determined to promote Relaxation Co., a boutique lodge that her husband helped create out of a rooster coop. Piece by piece, Ms. Miller has spent a 12 months shedding a lot of the property that they purchased and renovated so she will be able to choose up the items.

“I don’t assume grief ends,” Sarah-Mai mentioned. “Nevertheless it modifications.”

Doing What They Cherished

The Millers met after they labored on the Columbus, Ohio, headquarters of Categorical, the clothes retailer. Mr. Miller’s job was operating the inventive route for the model, which included working with fashions and stylists for picture shoots, whereas Ms. Miller was employed as an web coordinator, a novel title on the time that included dressing mannequins.

Mr. Miller had helped interview his future spouse for her job and needed to go on her for a extra skilled candidate. Finally, the individual accountable for Buyer Relationship Administration overruled him.

Two months later, they started relationship, Ms. Miller mentioned, recalling how Mr. Miller’s nattiness was a bit intimidating. “I grew up in small-town Ohio the place there’s no such factor as trend,” she mentioned. “Heath was fashionable. He cared about his look.”

That carried over to the décor of his house. The primary time Ms. Miller visited, he apologized for the “mess,” she recalled, laughing. “It was the cleanest and nicest house I’ve ever seen.”

Lower than a 12 months later, the couple moved to New York. Their first house within the metropolis was on 242 West 104th Road, which they renovated shortly after shopping for it, making use of a mixture of fashionable aesthetics with old-school New York grace, plus a touch of commercial.

They obtained married in Turks and Caicos in June 2008, which occurred to have been their first trip spot collectively greater than a 12 months earlier. Heath’s son, McKenzie, who was 12 on the time and from Heath’s earlier marriage, was additionally in attendance. They’d return to Turks and Caicos many occasions after their wedding ceremony, staying on the identical lodge and going to their favourite seashores.

New York was a cultural initiation. Along with attempting out as many new eating places as they may, they cherished frequenting museums and artwork exhibitions, the place they sought inspiration for his or her jobs. This inspiration would ultimately spill into many areas of their lives — dwelling décor, wardrobe and the enterprise they had been planning.

By this time of their careers, having grown weary of company energy and the best way stakeholders typically dilute creativity, the newlyweds talked loads about doing work that they each cherished versus work they thought they wanted to do. “A good suggestion goes to be polarizing,’” Sarah-Mai recalled Heath saying, a philosophy that might sooner or later issue into their attitudes round designing their dwelling areas.

Chalk 242 was born.

Maitopia

Whereas they had been constructing their enterprise, the Millers had been on the lookout for a second dwelling, out of the town. They had been versatile on places inside a two-hour radius and ultimately discovered a three-acre parcel of wooded land on Willow Glen Highway in Milan, with an adjoining stream. Mr. Miller had no technical know-how, however he was decided to design the house himself, Ms. Miller mentioned. “It paired together with his design aesthetic and background,” Sarah-Mai mentioned. “One thing simply clicked for him. He might see it actually clearly.”

Inside a 12 months of buying and clearing the land, Mr. Miller had give you the designs for the house, that includes a one-bedroom lofted construction with a peaked roof and that lap pool that they may bounce in simply by opening the again door. The enormous pivot door that swings open to the small pool, for example, took Mr. Miller, three of their buddies and a contractor to put in.

Mr. Miller gave the impression to be on to one thing. The peaked roof, unfavourable area and glass home windows, like hefty fragments of a geometrical puzzle made what is basically a one-room, tiny home really feel extra spacious.

They usually saved it naked: “While you’re going from one location to the following, you’re at all times bringing these items with you, and also you don’t need to be surrounded by stuff. You simply need to be in a spot that’s welcoming and clear.” That made it straightforward after they determined to hire it out by way of on-line reserving websites.

Certainly one of their frequent renters was Tina Roth-Eisenberg, the designer finest recognized for her weblog Swiss Miss. Ms. Roth-Eisenberg began posting photos of Maitopia to her social accounts at any time when she rented it, shocked by the creativity and a focus to element. In an Instagram publish dated Nov. 12, 2021, she wrote, “I’ll always remember the second after we entered the driveway, in spring of 2016. There she was, this contemporary, tiny magnificence. As we obtained out of the automobile my daughter observed the Swiss cross” on the shed “and jokingly mentioned, ‘This home was ready for you, mommy!’ It felt like destiny, however she later discovered that Mr. Miller had hung it there as a result of he loved the graphic enchantment of the cross, its clear strains. Ms. Miller had been a fan of Ms. Roth-Eisenberg for years they usually quickly turned buddies.

By 2020, they’d purchased the lot throughout the street and constructed a brand new dwelling that they known as Mailan. They discovered an keen purchaser for Maitopia: Ms. Roth-Eisenberg. Wanting to provide a proposal in individual, Ms. Roth-Eisenberg met the couple within the metropolis with a houseplant and illustrations of Maitopia that her youngsters had made. “It felt like an adoption,” Ms. Roth-Eisenberg mentioned. “Like I adopted this labor of affection.”

Mailan

As a toddler rising up in Ohio, Ms. Miller had seen a glass home and advised her mom she needed to reside in a single identical to it. Mr. Miller had at all times been obsessive about the glass home that the architect Philip Johnson had constructed in New Canaan, Conn., which appeared to rise out of the grass, equal elements stately and understated.

Mr. Miller’s creation was smaller, nevertheless it was grander than Maitopia with two bedrooms, two full baths, plus an open front room space with wooden flooring and wooden slat paneling alongside the outside. She relished the view that was the wood-burning range looking onto the pool, and the woods past it. These woods contained “enjoyable little components,” Ms. Miller mentioned, “just like the treehouse that Heath and his son, McKenzie, had constructed. Heath was a inventive. He needed to at all times create or else he’d get stressed.”

The Salt Field

Greenport on the North Fork of Lengthy Island was a unique vibe, neither woods nor straight seashore, neither rural or suburban. The Millers had vacationed in Mattituck, a fast drive from the home in Greenport they’d ultimately transfer to, and was advisable to them by household buddies who had vacationed there.

Not like Maitopia and Mailan, which they constructed from scratch, the Salt Field had been standing for the reason that 1830s on a decently busy intersection the place the Major Highway meets Rt. 48, or what’s regionally known as the North Highway. The Salt Field’s age, practically 200 years previous, and its shaker-style minimalism are what first attracted the couple. The wide-plank flooring had been initially a part of the house, a few of them over a foot vast, as was the spectacular Dutch colonial fashion entrance with its stalwart trim.

When it got here to the renovation, which started in April 2021 and was accomplished later that November, the Millers needed to pay homage to the architect who constructed it, although they didn’t know who that was.

The necessary factor was that it exemplified simplicity and coziness, whereas allowing the fashionable theme that the couple had grown to like. They moved the kitchen from the place the second bed room downstairs presently stands, to the lounge, incorporating the wooden hearth, whereas making the second room downstairs a library/examine, replete with two excessive again chairs, a gasoline hearth and built-in cabinets that Mr. Miller constructed. “It was our canine Rufus’ favourite room. At night time, when she slept in there, we’d put the hearth on low and preserve her snug at any time when it was chilly,” Ms. Miller mentioned.

It was considered one of her favourite rooms, too. “All of the properties we constructed had an intimate vibe to them,” Sarah-Mai mentioned. “Heath was an extrovert and I’m an introvert, and our dwelling was an area that felt like ours. If we did entertain, the area lent itself to smaller teams.”

Nevertheless it was principally simply the 2 of them, plus Rufus, cooking meals, enjoying chess or cozying up by the hearth. After they ventured out collectively, they loved driving across the island.

Mr. Miller was out together with his pal, William Value, whom he didn’t get to see usually. Mr. Miller needed to indicate off a few of his favourite spots, and Ms. Miller stayed dwelling to provide them area and time to catch up. Mr. Value, who was a passenger in Mr. Miller’s Tesla, died, as did Peter Smith and Patricia O’Neill, passengers in a 2020 Ford Explorer.

Earlier than Mr. Miller died, he and his spouse talked about the place to maneuver subsequent. They thought-about Charleston, after having fun with a two-month street journey down south after they had been closing on the salt field. Ms. Miller is now fascinated by Paris or staying put in Ohio or settling into her house in New York Metropolis. “I’m nonetheless studying to not get connected to issues,” she mentioned, remembering how she and her husband went from challenge to challenge. (She additionally misplaced Rufus, who was eight years previous, in December.) “At the moment, we mentioned, ‘We have to preserve going. We have to preserve shifting. We had been accumulating homes and reminiscences.’”

Just lately, she purchased a saltbox-style dwelling 20 minutes from her mother and father’ place in Ohio. She is about to start out renovations.